Hey Ladies!
I've got a quick question for you. What's your p.o.v. when it comes to keeping in touch with your ex-boyfriends? How does your current man feel about your continued relationship(s) with your ex-men? Do you think you should break all ties from the ex, regardless if it was an amicable split? You decide. Holla back!
Smooches!
...Hugs too!
Latasha
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Hey Tashie!
You know who it is:) This is wonderful. This must be the season for the SistaGirls! I'm involved in a married women's Bible Study/Book Club. It's wonderful. And your blog is in line with some of the things we discuss as well. But to speak on your topic, "You Decide"...When my husband put that ring on my finger and proposed the idea of spending a lifetime with me, everyone else before him was dismissed from my "inner circle". Now, what does that mean? If an ex-boyfriend called me on my cellphone, I would let him know that I was no longer "on the market". And to this day, they have not called since. My ex-boyfriends were actual boyfriends, not friends that happened to be guys, so we shared very intimate moments together. Hence, they now have no place in my life. My intimate moments are now only shared with my hubby:) I know it sounds cruel, but put the shoe on the other foot. If my husbnad was still friends with an ex-girlfriend, would I feel some type of way about it? Sure would! That heifer better back up!!!hahhahah Not that I don't trust my husband or that he doesn't trust me, but that trust does not extend to ex-boyfriends and girlfriends. If you respect your marriage, then they will too.
So after reading your question and the comment I must say that it is interesting to her the views of married women. I think that I know your take on this topic but here is mine.....I have one ex that has proven to be a really good friend over the years. Our relationship was rocky but as a friend he is very supportive and provides excellent advice and gives great opinions from a male point of view. I have been in relationships since him and our friendship never interfered with them based on the fact that he respects me and my relationships. WIll this work all the time with everyone....NO! In my heart I believe that God would guide my heart on whether the stings need to be severed once I enter into a new relationship. Until then I will continue to respect my relationship with both my man and my friend.
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